Feeling anxious, doing brave: what helps, what backfires, and what quietly makes it worse

Some of the most loving responses offered by parents to their children, such as rescuing, reassuring, avoiding, can quietly grow anxiety. In Feeling anxious, doing brave: what helps, what backfires, and what quietly makes it worse parenting expert Karen Young explains responses that are more helpful: gentle leadership, steady support and small, repeated steps that teach your child’s brain, “I can do this.”